Where is the line BTW not enabling and not "red lining" (as discussed in the books)? My 20 yr old has been burnt out for a long time. He went away to college but 2nd semester his stress level/anxiety/panic attacks were through the roof. So once he came home he's feeling like a failure once again and has done nothing for 2 months. He hates being dependent on us yet won't take steps to change it (ex still doesn't have drivers license). He refuses help like therapy/medication. I've been very kind and accommodating yet maybe feel "tough love" may be needed. Any advice appreciated greatly. Exhausted and worried...

Posted by LHG at 2025-07-02 05:27:07 UTC