I have a 24 year old who is now living out of state in his grandmother’s house rent free. He was originally there to help her before she passed last month. This guy has had a few jobs, including at the post office, which he quit because he wanted to take a trip to Wales, planning to eventually move there. This guy has no motivation to find a job. I’m sending him money constantly, on top of $350 a month, to support him and it’s really hurting us. I set him up with DES to get job help and he kept missing the appointments. I think he’s overwhelmed and doesn’t know how to start looking for a job. He has been on two interview but no hire. He dresses an odd way and has a very messy beard and mustache along with hair down to his waist. He refuses to change to present himself well to an employer. I was the one who really did the work to have him get prior jobs, including at the post office, except for a short term one at Dominoes. He kept forgetting his schedule at Dominoes, missing shifts. I really need guidance from afar. It’s seems we need to bring back home, which will happen eventually, but we really don’t want our empty nest full again (his sister is taking a year off school to work), and he’s totally disrespectful at home. Horribly. And I can’t get him to do anything around the house. Need advice.

Posted by Cricket29 at 2025-06-03 02:07:57 UTC