Hi I’m new here as a mom of a son who’s 29 with Asperger’s. He has held 2 full time jobs over the last 10 years. He is currently renting an apartment with my older son. He was fired from his job recently and my older son does not want to rent with him anymore. His dad and I live in Arizona and they live in Minnesota. We want him to come down here and start again with us getting therapy, his meds straightened out, etc. We all thought he was doing fine but obviously he hasn’t. He’s refusing to come stay with us and his brother wants to get out of their apartment paying what he has to break the agreement. My son says he doesn’t want to come down here because we yelled at him when he was younger. He couldn’t remember why or give an example. We apologized and said we could work thru it in therapy. He doesn’t like drama at home or work. He was in the Minneapolis Autism program all thru school and did very well. His biggest struggle is with communication. This job was with FedEx and he was there for nearly 5 years. He says his anxiety is out of control and he’s depressed. He doesn’t have money to cover his bills now. My older son wants to help in anyway he can. We really want him down here. He has no friends and stays in his room. Advice please. Update-my son has agreed to come and stay with us! We can help him get the help he needs. I know he has a lot to offer and is a smart hard working man when he has all the tools in place. Moving forward!

Posted by bjhbrooke at 2025-05-24 06:06:05 UTC