Please help....My adult son (23 - still living at home because he's on SSI) continues to use horribly offensive racial slurs (n-word) while playing his computer games. He lied about it the first time and said his sister was "hearing things". But the second time, I caught him saying it in anger and confronted him. I was completely shocked and very upset. It is the opposite of who he is as a person (or who I thought he was). I reacted harshly and told him he couldn't live in my house anymore if he continued to say it. He said his microphone is not actually on and, when he gets angry, the worse the word he uses, the better he feels. Like it's some sort of release. I asked him to find another word to use and I thought we had been in agreement. However, my daughter was just now doing laundry and said he was yelling it again. A few times. I don't know what to do or how to approach this. I refuse to have that kind of language in my home. Please help!

Posted by abbystocking at 2022-08-02 20:33:03 UTC