Hi Everyone. I'm here trying to support my niece who lost both of her parents recently. She's in her early 20's. With the help of another family member who has an ASD adult kid - we've created a living space for her that she'll move into soon. My concern is that she's unresponsive to requests regarding things like, renewing her driver's license and license plates (new state and expired plates). ADHD myself, I understand demand avoidance - but really struggling with ways to get her motivated! It's hard not to feel disrespected. We're rallying around her - she's been through a lot - but shizzle needs to get done. I'm not her mom. (Her mom is my sister.) I don't have kids myself so no experience parenting. I do understand some of the challenges - as I've lived them myself. Thanks for listening. :)

Posted by KaBeega at 2024-09-13 16:45:02 UTC