A 17-year-old loves to play video and card games with his friends but doesn't show interest in their lives besides the "games." For example, he does not care what hugh school courses they are taking, what grades they got, or if they are having a bad day. To him, they are "game mates." As he grows older, friends' interests mature, and they expect their relationship to evolve: stay in touch via text, and show interest in them besides playing games... When we discuss the topic, he understands that other people have different needs and requirements from their relationships. However, he still falls short of staying in touch on a permanent basis, which leads to some relationships dissolving. I often say to him that people wish to be viewed as more than an "avatar." I understand that is what's interesting for him, but if he fails to live up to their expectations, he will lose some friends on the way. any idea to work/train him on the topic?

Posted by Sigal at 2024-07-24 18:26:45 UTC