I need help and advice. My boyfriend has completely changed. We moved 3 years ago and now works from home. The computer has taken over his life. He won’t leave his office. Sometimes he sleeps on the floor in there, he’s competed stopped helping with everything if I ask for help and he has to leave his computer he’s mean and hurtful. He’s addicted to it really badly. If he’s not at his computer he’s staring at his phone. It’s ruined our family. He will make any excuse to be in his office. I can’t get him out. He’s now stopped talking to me and my daughter, stopped helping financially, and told me I’m not worth his time anymore. He’s very manipulative and will say and do anything to get to his computer. It’s ruining our lives. He just wants to be alone and on his computer all day. He’s makes things up so he can sit there even after work and do nothing but play video games or watch YouTube or movies and tv by himself. He’s stopped doing all the things we enjoyed doing together, when I work he can’t even pull himself away to take care of our dogs. He’s not being honest with his therapist as they don’t counsel patients that have Asperger’s. He will start a fight with me over things I’m not doing so I’ll leave him alone so he can be on his computer. His entire personality has changed. He used to be kind and caring and now he’s trying to kick me out of my house cause he wants to be alone with his computer. If I leave him, he’ll never leave the house again. He went 25 days without leaving the house recently and now only leaves every few weeks to get himself groceries as he stopped eating dinner with us as a family stopped cooking for us on his nights and has left me to do everything around the house the yard take care of my daughter and our two dogs. He’s making me struggle to survive as he makes the money in the house and stopped paying for everything that isn’t only for him. He yells at me and gets so angry with me and I’m not doing anything different or disrespecting him at all. How do I get him help?I just want my sweet kind man back. And his computer addiction is hurting people that love him. He can’t say anything nice to me is very negative. And he hid the fact he has Asperger’s from me for five years and is now holding things against me that I didn’t even know were bothering him. He let me sleep with the tv on and a fan on and never told me it bothered him. As well as many other things cause we live together.. I don’t know what to do. I contacted his mother and she doesn’t care.please help

Posted by mickey291 at 2024-07-18 15:00:43 UTC