How do I know if I am enabling my 19 year old? He wants to do house projects, such as renovations. On one hand, he’s learning skills and being productive. In the other , he’s avoiding working outside of the house. He has taken steps towards signing up to dog walk and offer pet care, as well as DoorDash. I keep getting myself enmeshed or supporting his interests and needs or productivity compulsions. We live together and I feel all the responsibility is on me. He refuses medication, a mentor or coach, group therapy. He’s not continuing his education nor employed.
Posted by Sharon78 at 2024-07-11 02:22:58 UTC