My son is nearly 20 and is firmly back in Defense Mode. I did the Defense Mode course maybe 10 years ago and it made a huge difference to our relationship. Unfortunately he is now locked in his bedroom, online and only comes out for the bathroom and food. He hasn't showered in weeks. I would like to be able to sit with him or do an activity with him but he is emotionally shutting me out. I'm sure he trusts me and knows I am always available to him but I'm worried. Is the Accountability course the same as the Defense mode course? Would there be new techniques or scripts I could use to try and help him?
Posted by allybee1062 at 2022-06-05 22:43:03 UTC