Isn’t there a time component to getting out of Defense Mode? Assuming you do everything right, maybe it can just take your child a lot of time to get out of Defense Mode? Our 18 year old has been out of school for a few months. We’ve been trying to get him out of defense mode for longer than that. We have seen some improvement but it’s certainly not linear and he goes back in Defense mode often. I don’t know what we can do differently and I think we need to be patient. Thoughts ?
Posted by Eve at 2023-04-21 01:28:18 UTC