Hello. I'm excited to find this community! I have 2 adult sons on the spectrum. 20 yr old is embedded in defense mode. It shows up as anger, yelling, escalation - in just about all circumstances. I welcome any articles/videos that can help. 19 yr old's defense mode is video games & withdrawal. I can identify his stressors a bit easier, but have no influence in changing. One of his big stressors is college and he won't let me help/intervene. The other is his friends who sometimes bully him. Its just he chooses to withdraw from the group when they are unkind, I just want to support him with other options. Again, any material to get me started is much appreciated. Thanks!

Posted by gre.ter at 2023-04-13 16:44:50 UTC