Hi all! I am the mom of 3, our middle is 7years old. He has ADHD (focus on opposition), SPD, ASD, anxiety, PTSD, and a short list of other physical issues. He is the smartest person I have ever met. He is so quick witted and can be the kindest person ever. However, he can also be mean and hurtful. At 7 he has now given me 4 concussions, 3 to his father, and put more holes in walls or doors that he is years old. He despises being angry and when he comes down from it, he feels shame. We try to let him know that he doesn’t need to feel shame. That he is loved beyond belief. We just fix what’s broken and move on. A new day. Lately he has had less anger/rage but more opposition. We few like we are constantly walking on eggshells.
Posted by vaderbugmama at 2023-01-26 15:54:22 UTC