I am in desperate need of advice. I was notified yesterday that my 15 year old son is required to meet with juvenile court counselor as charges were filed against him. My initial thought is to give him a heads up about his appointment on Friday after school. My second thought is that he will be distraught all week and unable to cope, ruminating, fearful, depressed and distraught. And yet, waiting until he gets out of school Friday, wont give him the opportunity to process this inevitably scary situation. What would you do, wait or tell him now?

Posted by seacchg at 2023-01-11 10:52:49 UTC